LYS 33
Don’t share your love ... I think the years of passing love around are over ... today if you share love love is taken or you get replaced as advertised put down to be treated as a lesser match in life to someone who thinks they’re better than that’s how you lose love in life and how your love gets blamed if things do not go right as the person to whom confidences were given and treated as though you misled the public to thinking things were okay or not okay based upon your wellness any loss is felt and upon such losses in love hurt occurs be weary of to whom you go to for love it’s when love is not returned harm occurs as love is given, by those in between are the ones responsible for distance not those to whom love is given or received. You cannot get love by replacing others in life that’s the lesson to be learned and you cannot find success by imitating others to achieve love admiration or respect. Missing quote Don’t hold back ... It’s okay to try new things within reason but not if it affects your progress. Sometimes new things can be addicting when you get all wrapped up and lose focus. Think what is it that’s important to you and stick to that ... nothing lasts forever don’t forget yourself in the process of loving others. Don’t worry too much ... As co-dependent the tendency is to worry when you’re not a priority not important not needed. Don’t develop unhealthy attachments. Chances are if you’re addicted to any person or thing that doesn’t return the same feeling that’s your problem to resolve not the other persons responsibility to cure. Not everyone will treat you as special in life always ... do your best likewise to be admired respected and needed. It’s not the responsibility of those who are well to help you get well always don’t be so needy in life the more you can get done on your own in life the more you’ll be thought of needed as independent of others. Planning ahead ... Nows a good time to get organized and plan ahead. Where do you see yourself in the future? What are your wants, what are your needs and go from there a little daily action planning goes a long way whether by lists or keeping a record of your progress sometimes that’s the best way to reflect and notice improvements to self - not all improvements seen by others do we have the beauty to witness for ourselves. It’s not always obvious ... Whether it’s obvious to others should make no difference moving forward who knows what and about whom. Be a good judge of character first do your part to achieve normal ... for what reasons people choose space is not up to you not all weirdness is acceptable, know your place. You cannot expect people to know how to respond to you if you are not at your best, likewise if you were in their shoes you’d not know how to respond to them being weird in the past ... all things come full circle in the whats normal or not normal department. Everyone has their moments in life appreciate the good times and be forgiving of those times either you or someone you know was not themselves. Be yourself ... Not everyone gets it in life some are on different levels success wise some on different playing fields socially do your best to adjust to all settings ... be humble be nice but don’t be small minded. We cannot all wind up in inner circles in life some outside to those we look up to admire or achieve lifestyles we wish we had like quotes on jets or motivational statements on suits be who you are as influenced not wish you were who is seen in the background those are just selling points to what is said in life ... what’s more important is what you say and how you say it in life to whom offenses are taken or offenses are drawn into interpretations of what you share about yourself or others. Don’t look like a jealous person envy fewer in life and achieve more of who you are not by focusing on who you are not. Here we go ... It’s not only lessons you learn from stories but characters you remember - such powerful gifts in life are given to those who as preserved once they present themselves to the world are considered new that’s where empowerment comes from the introduction of well to the sick or the sick upon meeting the well cured that’s gods work ... the power to help others is given to those who achieve well in life and with wellness entrusted to help others they are responsible for curing others and upon being cured know and recognize who is well why well is well taken care of in life entrusted with privileges and with privilege excels in life from where drive should come from to help others achieve well too including yourself. #superbowl Not everything makes sense ... At least in the immediate not all things will make sense especially when anywhere new thought or experience wise to keep going pick up always from where you left off your life ahead is a product of the days put in if you expect to have better days in life work on having a good day now and from there ... you will see change. Things start to make sense the more you make sense in life don’t always go by what you make sense of that’s not always how to make sense of now ... especially if you end up worse off by those thoughts - life is not perfect not even thought wise #bepositive. Think for yourself ... Not everyone’s humor will make sense to you overtime as you become more abreast with social and political know how you too will be in tune on the foreground of what’s at issue not left behind so to speak with jokes or good humor ... not everything’s a joke ... and not every inside will be a pleasurable experience sometimes at best good humor is being used in response to bad humor in the past which had affected others within groups of within themselves affected as not having understood from where jokes come from. It takes one to know one ... Listening to a song I heard a phrase that reminded me of this one. ~ Nothing you do without pay goes unnoticed however much of life is lived without pay ... and without pay one should still hold themselves to the standard of someone who is working for pay. “It takes one to know one” what does that mean to me? To me that means recognizing how you call it in life that unless you understand what it is can you recognize what it is, that unless you have experienced something in life will you know how to identify what it is you’re experiencing -sometimes if new it’s hard to identify and if you get used it’s hard to identify who the user is, it’s usually by acceptance we allow people into our lives ... listen mostly for what you identify as wrong or right ... and do what you identify as wrong or right and based on that outlook hopefully you will be a wiser person and decision maker so that you lead a better life. What do you see ... What you see in people is your choice ... what you believe it’s not about who you believe it’s about the good that you see in others not in spite of what others think but based upon your interaction with them see -we all have had different experiences in life in knowing others this is no different. When you have known someone differently than others have that’s not a special knowing of a person separate from others but in a way that helps to reinforce their good traits by what they choose to be known about them - how they are known is outside of their control that’s called fame or being well known it comes at a price and with a microscope. LYS 34 Don’t be argumentative ... When people are there for you appreciate that space minus the heckling and low blows but be responsible for the input towards you ... you can’t always control this aspect of life but if you speak and behave well then you should have nothing to worry about. Everyone has lives of their own it’s not all about you why it’s important not to talk about people in public as this ruins chemistry upon talking to a person much like it is talking behind someone back about them. When Love Can’t Cure All ... There’s nothing worse than loving someone who doesn’t love you. It’s like giving your heart away with no return ... no certainty ... being the provider of your own warmth in life. Once you realize who they are ... you’ll come to appreciate them more. It’s not all about love ... work is more important ... some when focused on the right things in life tend to live positive lives everything coming to fruition for them as they see fit whether or no that includes you is up to you! To surround yourself with well people be a good person and likewise you’ll achieve the same with or without them by your side. Don’t be easily affected ... Not everything makes sense in the immediate ... given the times are new be so thankful for the devices we’ve been left to but don’t overwhelm yourself with nuanced opinions or feel the pressure to keep up with information more than half the information you don’t know of probably exists elsewhere and it’s your responsibility to do your research and learn. Meeting people ... You’ll meet many people in life ... however few who will change you (especially if you’re stubborn or defiant) you cannot win with them all. Not all will be dedicated to seeing you change some are more interested in the changes they go through as in knowing you (don’t be selfish) just as you would be happy for yourself be happy for others (once you stop feeling good chances are you will be unable to make others feel good) and so relationships come to an end ... once you stop achieving or believing in others others will stop believing in you that’s not gods work that’s karma. Treat all equally be equally as pleasant and equally as caring equally as observant equally as forgiving and try equally hard for each you seek to impress in life you never know who’s support you’ll need one day if not who you’re supported by now and who’s supported you all along. Life’s a journey not meant to be relived but learned upon, and from those lessons become a better person if not leave others better off with or without you in their lives as met or so deserving to meet. LYS 35 Having it all ... I used to think that having it all meant something different and realized later that it’s more important to live a healthy life in order to have a great life. Once you realize how short life is from that point in time on you start living life differently for the better. The best feeling is being in the now not worried about the past but living for the moment. The beauty of life ... The beauty of life is that you can be a product of whatever you choose to believe. #stopsuicide ... So long as we live in a society that blames good people for why bad things happen then things will never change ... so long as we use the identities of the bad to make deductions things will never change ... so long as we interpret things in the negative things will never change. Choose to disassociate yourself from things that don’t matter and choose to associate to those who do. The beauty of life ... The beauty of life is that you can be a product of whatever you choose to believe. #stopsuicide ... So long as we live in a society that blames good people for why bad things happen then things will never change ... so long as we use the identities of the bad to make deductions things will never change ... so long as we interpret things in the negative things will never change. Choose to disassociate yourself from things that don’t matter and choose to associate to those who do. How to get to friendly ... Without sounding like you’re from Minnesota ... that’s a challenging question. If you make it past awkward without causing discomfort and if you don’t stare for too long it gets to friendly quick especially as open not with your mouth open but by breathing when you’re relaxed so will others be around you. When you’re not at ease don’t expect others to be friendly towards you to open you up confidence is always a plus, so is reading a magazine in the waiting room. If you’re Dream is to be well liked then do so start now and don’t give up discrimination ends when you stop letting them win and instead put on a happy face 🙃 others will be glad you did, happy for your turn around. Be yourself ... You will always be where you’ve been if you don’t move forward in life. If you want to build a better life for yourself accept your faults improve upon your weaknesses and be a better person in spite of those days believe that there are better days ahead. Being yourself means accepting that you’re not perfect and that even if things don’t go well you won’t give up on yourself. What is smart? We all wish to have those moments when something we have to say comes across as profound ... but that doesn’t always happen, it’s the best when as the listener being given advices in life when the speaker is spot on. Be patient with yourself not all advices in life will make sense at the time but if you remember the wisdoms shared by others it may later apply be helpful, then “profound.” We tend to remember only what we want to hear. What makes sense to us. Why is that? Getting your way ... You won’t always get your way in life sometimes you’ll be wrong you can’t see perfect always. There will be days when you feel off and what you have to say off putting be patient with yourself ... give yourself time to heal change doesn’t happen overnight. The goal is to always stay positive even if what you have to say no one wants to hear or by what you have to say wrong - hope that it always helps the goal of the writer. LYS 36 Be a good person ... Sometimes this means replacing our own best interests with the best interests of others. Not everything is about being right ... don’t come off as too strong in interactions some are weaker than you think. Being a good person means owning up to your wrongs, doing your share to empower others, and keeping your side of the street clean without pointing out the defects in others while you’re at it. Who you are ... That’s something about you no one can change ... who you are - you can either live with your faults or blame others, be happy or unhappy with who you are, grateful or unpleasant about not being where you want to be in life, but never take that out on others. Surely others may try to better you but until you know yourself will you be able to have the kind of relationships you want and be the person you know you are. Remind yourself that you’re a good person and don’t let people change you for the worst in life - always be in control of your emotions. Don’t be trashy ... It’s easy to look like a douchebag these days ... just because you’re online doesn’t mean you’re looking ... there are many lonely souls looking for attentions in life unless you’re on a dating site don’t waste your time engaging with others. There’s a time and a place for socialization be careful not to socialize with people you don’t know. It’s easy these days to be taken advantage of. Don’t fool yourself ... It’s easy to fall in love with ideas about people especially people you don’t know very well see them as perfect ... that’s just your ideal to think someone who looks perfect is perfect don’t be fooled by looks. Looks alone does not make a person it’s how they live their lives and by how hard they try in life should they be judged. Don’t take it personally rejections in life just means it’s not the right person, time, or place for you in life. Set your standards high for yourself don’t lower your standards for anyone to fit in and always do your best. Be wise ... It’s easy to get wrapped up getting mad at yourself over your past ... then at the present mess up while you’re at it. Privacy is everything you’re not required to talk about your past with current or new relationships professional or personal to be understood a little mystery goes a long way. You could be sharing a world neither of you wants to take part in that is reliving your struggles instead of growing from your problems. Be thankful ... Be thankful for your places in life. If the more you think about the past the more unhappy you become then choose the present. What is it you can do now for yourself moving forward to be in a happier healthier state of mind. No one is responsible for your unhappiness we but yourself. Take control of your life and live your best days now. Learn from your mistakes ... Not only is it important to be genuine but it’s also important not to be naive when it comes to liking others ... not play with peoples minds or hearts by liking more than one person. In retrospect you always think who was more important ... those who love you stay in your life and those who don’t may leave you’re life if you don’t pay enough attention to them. There’s a careful balance when in love or lust to pay attention to who is vying for your attentions if to keep them don’t run away that’s a sure sign not a match ... just for play. How you know who’s playing you for attentions versus who loves you the one least avoidant is the one to pick. Know yourself ... Know when to stop when to keep going in life set limits for yourself. Addiction results from poor choices and attempts to fix oneself don’t play doctor on yourself trying to fix your own problems ... it’s a never ending road ... don’t self harm when you don’t end up where you want to be in life chances are you’re just being hard on yourself.
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